Human Art
Just here to share some of my though, i knew a lot of thing, good experience and bla bla bla, all is what i think about myself, recent incident cost me something i never afford, i try to over come it by been selfish, ego, ignorance, blaming and everything ….
Two day before christmas, meet a friend (not so close), i finally open up my heart and told some one about something i lose and i’m really lost, he told me about my ego, ignorance and everything, all happen just because i FEAR, fear of losing, fear of not equal, fear of unfair, fear of knowing the fact ……..
Cool, finally i realize but i still doing same mistake day over day till i meet a group of people who willing to share my though and help me with one very simple method “listening” …
One of the greatest gift “Listening” that i born with it, but i fail to utilize it, worst i choose to ignore, i don’t listen to anyone not even my self, i let my emotion take control of everything, block everyone, ruin any relation, fight on everything, finally i realize it, If someone who don’t care about you, they don’t try to communicate with you and worst nothing hurt more than the sense that the people who care about aren’t really listen …….
I would like to use the chance here, apologize to everyone that hurt before, especially some one who we really care about each other before, Sorry ….
Last person i ever hurt on 16/01/2011 9.28pm, sorry again, i’m not sure i doing it on purpose or not but this will be the last time ……
I start to learn Art of Communication ” Listening”, Yes listening not talking, Talking is the only tool i use to communicate but LISTENING” play more important role in any conversation …
I’m attending a course to learn how to listen (one month ago, i will said this is ridiculous) but today i find very useful .. I don’t know how to listen to other yet but i make a big step forward now, cause i start to listen to myself, it make huge improve by just understand my self, imagine if i able to listen to anyone, how wonderful my life will be ? Listening = EQ, Care, understanding and a lot more, none of any word from Listening can harm anyone …..
If you wish to learn how to communicate please come back more often, i try to update everything here …..
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